We've all had someone come to us as a woman, or for the most part was the individual that was " coming as a woman"
Okay, lets just say, women are the most pettiest mother____ers on this planet !
Like they shade you before addressing you, and when they address you, its a whole different story.
Its no secret that some men cheat and lie. You can be in a fully commited relationship with a male, and shit, he'd still tell a next woman he's "single". Sadly, most of the time they dont even say they're "single" but their actions give the impression that they are.
SOOOO you really going to be out here entertaining other females? You really out here sleeping around? You really out here having your woman look stupid? Ok cool!
Even if he haven't actually had sex with another female. Miss " Im Coming To You As A Woman" is still, going to come to you as a woman, because;
Nothing excites some women more than another woman's man wanting her.
LOL; even if it was just a boring "hey" in the dm, that "hey" would be translated into
" Girl, her man cant leave me alone"
" Thats OUR man"
" lol, girl he dont even want her"
Females take any opportunity they have to shade another female, because lets face it b--ches want your happiness. PERIOD!
But the crazy part about this is, when she comes to you as a woman, she THINKS shes the MAIN!
She acts like she didnt know about you.
Lol, yeah, okay, cool...i feel you girl!
After she comes to you as a woman, she wants to become problematic
LETS JUST MAKE THIS CLEAR!
why would you want to fight over a dude you both sharing at the end of the day? A dude that probably dont even want a future with you. If its to the point where it looks like he's actually in another relationship with this female, clearly he respects none of you.
Today women compete for the attention of men,when some men cant be satisfied by one female. So you wanting to fight over a man you're sharing is crazy! IM TALKING BEYOND! Yes, you might've gave him your all, but clearly he doesn't appreciate that.
You two wanting to fight over him?
Meanwhile he could possibly be out there entertaining some other female, that you both know nothing about.
Sweety he's for everybody!
Okay, who am i kidding, back then WE WAS FIGHTING! No doubt, but you still look stupid in the end. But now, if you feel as if thats your man, KEEP HIM B ! Because what i wont allow is another female thinking she has the upper hand on me.Never catch me in a damn fight over a "nigga"that got me out here looking stupid. So dont come to me as a woman, just keep the creep.
Disrespect is no laughing matter
What you dont want is for a next female to feel like she has "One Up" on you. Okay by that i meant, as if she took something away from you, that you value so much that you forget your worth. Who wont be mad knowing their man is out and about with another woman that thinks shes "wifey"?
But lets face it, in some situations today YOUR man, is Her man, and also EVERYONE else's man. No matter what you do for him, or with him, if he wants to cheat he will. Some men cant resist temptation, and most of the time when they confront you as a "woman", you're man only saw them as a hit and run.
Women are so spiteful a man can sleep with her, she would know he has a girl, but because it doesn't work out the way she wanted it to work out, she would try to hit him where it hurts, by coming to HIS partner AS A WOMAN!
This kinda shit amazes me!
With that being said hoes will be hoes
But its all a big joke until someone honestly COMES TO YOU AS A WOMAN!
- Side note: if you're the side chick, you cant expect him to leave his woman, for someone(you) that was comfortable with being the side from the beginning, because how you get them is how you lose them ( blog post coming soon)
Always remember to Rate yourself enough to understand your value